Do you hold grudges or do you believe in forgive and forget?
This daily prompt dates back several months, but I had hit “try another” umpteen times. It was time to commit.
Having survived a crushing divorce, I wholeheartedly believe in forgive and forget. Why, you ask? Read on…
From Help, Thanks, Wow: The Three Essential Prayers by Anne Lamott
“…graced with the ability finally to forgive someone is just plain astonishing. You can’t have gotten from where you were – gripped by anxiety, tiny with fear – to come through to freedom, for God’s sake. To have been so lost that you felt abducted, to feeling found, returned, and set back on your feet.”
Forgiving is important to free yourself; not necessarily someone else, but to free you.
Instructions for freedom
1. Life’s metaphors are God’s instructions.
2. You have just climbed up and above the roof, there is nothing between you and the Infinite; now, let go.
3. The day is ending, it’s time for something that was beautiful to turn into something else that is beautiful. Now, let go.
4. Your wish for resolution was a prayer. You’re being here is God’s response. Let go and watch the stars came out, on the inside and the outside.
5. With all your heart ask for Grace and let go.
6. With all your heart forgive him, forgive yourself and let him go.
7. Let your intention be freedom from useless suffering then, let go.
8. Watch the heat of day pass into the cold night, let go.
9. When the Karma of a relationship is done, only Love remains. It’s safe, let go.
10. When the past has passed from you at last, let go.. then, climb down and begin the rest of your life with great joy.
― from Elizabeth Gilbert’s Eat. Pray. Love.
From Worthy by Catherine Ryan Hyde
“Forgive someone from your past. You don’t need to contact them. Forgiveness is more about you than them.”